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Bodies, pleasure and health in numbers: part two

Ten survey figures about fantasy, condoms, orgasm, masturbation, sexual health and habits-and why the sample always matters.

Self-reported sexual behaviour is especially sensitive to wording, memory and social expectations. Read these numbers as snapshots of particular surveys, not universal truths.

  1. One survey found that 43% of women viewed a partner’s fantasies about someone else as a form of betrayal. Couples define boundaries differently; discussing them is more useful than assuming.
  2. Some studies report lower condom use among sexually active adults over 40. Risk does not disappear with age, and barrier protection and testing remain relevant with new or multiple partners.
  3. Around 48% of women in some surveys say they have faked an orgasm at least once. The result varies, but it points to the value of communication without performance pressure.
  4. One age-based survey reported masturbation among 84% of men aged 25-29 and about 60% at age 70, with lower reported rates among women. Such answers are shaped by culture, privacy and question wording.
  5. A typical ejaculate is often described as roughly 2-5 ml and may contain tens or hundreds of millions of sperm cells. Volume and concentration vary, and fertility cannot be judged by appearance.
  6. Estimates of 500-1,000 annual deaths linked to autoerotic risk-taking are widely repeated but uncertain. Restricting breathing or using dangerous restraints can be fatal and should never be treated as safe experimentation.
  7. A survey claim that 21% of men had viewed pornography at work reflects one sample and period. Workplace rules, privacy, consent and digital security still apply.
  8. One survey reported that 18% of women aged 25-34 believed their sexual peak had passed. Sexual wellbeing does not follow a fixed age timetable.
  9. Spain, Brazil and Italy have appeared near the top of some international self-report surveys of sexual frequency. Cross-country rankings are highly sensitive to recruitment and cultural reporting.
  10. An older estimate suggested about 10% of sexually active adults used sex toys. Current use may be different as access, language and social attitudes change.